My view on campus love

Youth people are gradually enriching the connotation of love, while recently, the phenomenon of oppsite sex staying overnight in campus dormitory occurs from time to time though it has been stressed repeatedly by schools. This has created bad influence among university students, meanwhile, it has also become the hot topic for them. In my opinion, this phenomenon embodies a kind of selfish love which is the flaw among glorious love. In short term, this will inevitably affect the normal life of students around them; in long term, this will damage the building of advanced campus culture. In addition, many student lovers around campus don’t pay attention to their image and act intimately in public, but they have ignored other people’s feeling; some students are just busy in dating with their girl friends or boy friends without considering their scholar achievements; what is even worse, some students, with money in hand which is paifully earned by their parents, spend money like water to buy luxury and romance during love journey. Facing such phenomenon, we should think carefully, what should be the right view towards love for university students?

Nowadays when people are paying more attention to freedom of love, the unversity’s attitude is neither approve nor disapprove, but at the same time, we see that for students’ improper and indecent behavior during the process of love, the education and punishment by schools is serious. It has been stipulated clearly in the students’ manual that what punishement will be implemented when the opposite sex stay overnight in dormitory. This has certain effect, but when the punishement is implemented, at the same time, more efforts should be put into education to help students build the correct view towards love and let them know better about social morality—this is the root to hold back improper love because action is determined by idea, only when correct ideas are engraved in people’s heart can good effect be realized. For the forming of social morality for love is also the embodyment of advanced campus culture, schools should make efforts in leading the direction of propaganda to let them act gracefully: on the one hand, schools should promote them to treat love as the motive power to achieve success in study; on the other hand, schools should educate them that only civilized love can bring fresh and happy mood for others.